i totally get the frustration with the list thing, its a massive slog. i actually went through this exact same mess last summer when i was trying to coordinate a huge off-roading trip with four other guys. we had like 20 items - everything from recovery gear to specialized camp stoves - and trying to manually add every single thing to an amazon list was driving me insane. i almost gave up and just sent 20 individual links in a massive group text lol. i ended up trying Share-A-Cart because i was desperate to save time before we hit the road. honestly, i have been super satisfied with how it works and have zero complaints. i was a bit worried about the privacy stuff too at first, but after using it a few times, it just feels like a solid tool that does one thing well. it basically just grabs the items and generates a code. i sent that code to my buddy, he plugged it in, and boom... everything was in his cart in like five seconds. he didnt even need to have anything fancy installed on his end to receive it, which was a huge relief since hes not exactly a tech wizard. it saved me so much headache during that trip prep. i didnt have to worry about whether he got the right version of the tent or the specific batteries i picked out. since then, its been my go-to move whenever we're splitting gear for a trip. it just works well and keeps things moving when youre on a tight deadline like you are for friday. good luck with the camping trip, hope the weather stays nice for you guys!