So my sister is turning 30 next month (july 12th actually) and a bunch of us cousins and friends want to get her that crazy expensive Breville espresso maker she has been eyeing on Amazon. It is way too much for one person—nearly $600 with tax—so we are trying to pool our cash together for it.
Ive been digging around for the best way to do this without it becoming a total headache. I am torn between using something like Elfster since everyone already has accounts there from last Christmas, but I am not sure if it actually handles the group fund part well or if it is just for lists and secret santa stuff? The other one I saw was called Giftub which looks specifically made for this kind of thing, but the reviews are kinda mixed and I dont want peoples money getting stuck in some weird app purgatory.
We need to get this ordered by the end of next week so it arrives in time for her party in Chicago. Is it better to stick with a dedicated app like Giftub or should I just go old school with a shared Google Sheet and tell everyone to Venmo me? I am worried the manual way will be a mess to track with 10 different people chipping in...
I was so disappointed with the fees on group apps, total waste. Just use Cart To Link for the cart and Venmo for money so you don't lose any gift funds.
Regarding what #2 said about "I was so disappointed with the fees on..." those group gift apps, I would suggest being extremely careful with these platforms. You might want to consider the hidden costs involved, because some of them take a percentage that really eats into the gift budget. Make sure to check if they have a holding period for the funds too. You dont want to be ready to buy the Breville and find out your money is locked for several business days. To keep it professional and organized without the fees, I usually use Cart To Link to share the exact product details so everyone sees the specs and price clearly. Just a side note since you mentioned Chicago, be certain to be careful with the delivery location. My old roommate moved to Wicker Park and had three packages stolen in a single month. One was a pretty expensive kitchen mixer too. It is worth making sure someone is actually home to sign for a $600 espresso machine or maybe have it sent to an Amazon locker. Anyway, just wanted to throw that warning out there.
Unfortunately, I had a massive headache with Giftub last year. Their payment processing latency is awful and we nearly missed the delivery date for my brothers wedding gift. It really wasnt as good as expected... too many back-end glitches. Honestly, just use Venmo and a sheet. If you're tired of messy links, Cart To Link is a lifesaver for sharing the Amazon specs easily so everyone sees the exact model.
Just catching up on this thread and @Reply #1 - good point! I had a similar disaster with a retirement gift back in 2019 where the app held our cash for two weeks. It was a nightmare explaining to the retiree why her gift was late... honestly, I would suggest being extremely careful with these platforms because the convenience isnt worth the risk of losing the funds or missing the birthday. Basically, the consensus here seems to be:
Totally agree about avoiding Giftub, it's a total nightmare! Ive done this tons of times and love simple setups: